Published November 17, 2025

What You Really Want in a Realtor: Questions to Ask & Qualities That Make All the Difference

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Written by Josh Voyles

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Choosing the right Realtor is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when buying or selling a home. The truth is—your agent can make the difference between a smooth, confident experience… or a stressful one. Whether you’re a first-time buyer, upsizing, downsizing, or preparing to sell, it pays to know what to expect from your Realtor and what questions to ask before committing.

If you’re looking for a St. Louis–area Realtor you can rely on, here’s what truly matters.

1. A Realtor Who Listens to Your Goals (Not Just Your Budget)

A great Realtor starts by understanding you—your lifestyle, timeline, priorities, and non-negotiables. You want someone who asks thoughtful questions and truly hears the answers, not someone who pushes you toward whatever is convenient for them.

Questions to ask:

  • “What’s your process for getting to know a client’s needs?”
  • “How will you tailor your search or selling plan to fit my goals?”

At Voyles Realty Group, every client starts with a real conversation—not a script—so we can build a plan around what matters most to you.


2. Clear, Honest Communication Every Step of the Way

Real estate moves fast, and your Realtor should keep you informed before you ever have to ask. That means regular updates, quick responses, and transparency from start to finish.

Questions to ask:

  • “How often will I hear from you?”
  • “Do you prefer calls, texts, or emails—and do you adapt to your clients’ preferences?”

Our team takes a communication-first approach so you always know what’s happening, what’s coming next, and what your options are.


3. Market Expertise in Your Local Area

National stats are helpful… but they don’t sell homes. You want a Realtor who understands the neighborhoods, pricing trends, school districts, and buyer behavior right here in the St. Louis metro.

Questions to ask:

  • “What’s happening in the market in my specific area?”
  • “How do you determine pricing for a home like mine?”

Because our team specializes in Fenton, Affton, South County, and surrounding communities, we study these micro-markets inside and out—so you don’t have to.


4. A Strategy (Not Guesswork) for Buying or Selling

Your Realtor should have a proven system for success, not a “let’s just see what happens” approach.

For sellers, that means:

  • A step-by-step pricing strategy
  • Professional marketing and photography
  • Contractor and vendor coordination
  • Staging guidance
  • Strong negotiation skills

For buyers, that includes:

  • A tailored search process
  • Instant alerts on new listings
  • Competitive offer strategies
  • Guidance on inspections and contingencies

Your Realtor’s plan should make you feel empowered—not overwhelmed.


5. A Team of Trusted Pros Behind the Scenes

From lenders to inspectors to contractors, your Realtor should connect you with trusted professionals who make the process easier and more efficient.

At Voyles Realty Group, we don’t just hand you a list—our team speaks “contractor,” manages timelines, coordinates logistics, and ensures your home is show-ready and stress-free.


6. A Reputation Built on Trust, Not Transactions

The best Realtors build long-term relationships. Look for someone with real client reviews, repeat clients, and a reputation for putting people first.

Our team is proud to help 70+ families each year while staying small, local, and community-centered—because you deserve a team that knows you by name.


7. Someone Who Makes the Journey Feel Easy

Buying or selling a home is a big deal. The right Realtor makes it feel manageable—even enjoyable. They educate you, advocate for you, and celebrate with you at the finish line.

That’s the experience we work hard to deliver every single day.


Thinking of Buying or Selling in St. Louis? Let’s Talk.

Whether you’re just exploring your options or are already ready for the next step, we’d love to be a resource. No pressure—just honest guidance and a team that treats you like family.

👉 Reach out anytime for a consultation or to get your personalized plan started.

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